Guard Your Boundaries Now

Today’s message is from the Tarot of Dreams by Ciro Marchetti. Ten of Wands. In spite of all the signs that things are getting easier for you, you are still going through a hell of a rough time. Someone might try to “tough love” you over the next few days. Do we ever appreciate that? Really? I don’t think so. When you have been knocked on your ass by grief, heartbreak, illness, or financial turmoil, the last thing you need is someone telling you to buck up, move on, pull yourself together. Fight the good fight. Nope, just not useful right now. This tough love proponent is a bully and your connection with him or her has become toxic. If you had the strength, you might sit up and punch this dummy in the face. Ignore them instead. I know there is a lot of criticism about technology, smartphones, security systems, etc. I have a theory that a lot of the people who think these things are bad, like to show up unexpectedly. When you can see that an energy vampire is calling you or ringing the bell, you just don’t have to pick up the phone or answer the door. Problem solved for you 🙂 You’ve got the tools. Use them. You don’t have to apologize for needing space. Take some quiet time for yourself right now while you are still feeling raw. If you want to see anyone, make sure you surround yourself with gentle people who aren’t going to try to tell you to shake it off. This too shall pass, but guard your perimeters until it does. Have a great day.